My dad shared this article with my from Philly.com (part one of four).  Part 1:  A Crisis for the Disabled.  Part 2: Finding Good Help.  Part 3:  Finding Work.   Part 4:   Life After Death   http://www.philly.com/philly/columnists/ronnie_polaneczky/intellectual-developmental-disabilities-caregivers-abuse-falling-off-the-cliff-part-1.html